爱, Love

I don't dare to say, what said in this post is true, but it may have the possibility to be true ... true for some, may be untrue for some ....

Love, different guys have different ways to love his girl ... that's why love is irreplaceable ...

Most of the time, some females, talk about playboy, a playboy ... a guy who play around with girls, girls to them is only for sex. In some people perspective, females and males, they think that a playboy dun have love, cause they never been serious in their relationship, they juz ask for one night stand ... but I have a different point of view. For me, I sympathize them ... Why?? They hurts girl feelings u would say. May be they experience worse than juz merely hurts, that's why they revenge on other girls. However, their action aren't correct, but what to do, they juz got hurts too badly and lost their directions ... Perhaps, they been hurt badly before and there isn't anyone there for them, there isn't anyone helping them up, don't have a proper solution, that's why causes them to give up on relationship, and one night stand, or not being serious in a relationship will keep them away from these pain ... perhaps is so, that's why they start to be a playboy ...

So, for this kind of guys, there is more love in them than u think, love is inside, it must be felt internally not juz surface ... Feel them and perhaps u can help these guys ....

However, this is not apply for all playboys, perhaps some ...

Besides, playboys, we have those guys, they love you very much and they have sex with you before marriage, why?? These are guys that love you, but not in a responsible way. They love you, but they are not mature enough, they don't think far. They tot that, is simple, love we juz have fun everyday. However, come to think of it, we can't have all happy moment right?! World is balance, we will surely have sad time, and accident always occurred. If you have sex with your girl and then she found out she has a baby, then what are you goin to do guy? marry her? but then u have no plans, and no money, and u goin to make ur girl suffer with u ... be responsible, this term doesn't means, "if u have baby, i will marry u, u will be my wife", is NOT so simple!! Be responsible means u have to think of her feelings, think of what u can do for her, not merely happy happy ... there is will be difficulty and sad time included in this "happy forever" phase ... so be responsible means, u have to think of ur girls, u have to make plans for her, make sure she dun suffer with you ... if there is accident then it can't be avoided, for example, after married then u bankrupt or have financial crisis ... that can't be avoided, but at least, before married, make sure u do ur best and give her ur best ... and make sure, u dun spoil her with ur baby ... think of her, if u leave her accidentally, make sure she still can go on with her life normally ... means still a normal girl and not a mother ... alright???

Be responsible ...

This kind of guys, they love you, they truly do, but juz they din think far ... they aren't mature enough perhaps ...

There are also guys that love you, but they aren't capable of showing it ....

For example, a guy that doesn't have anything, he is still studying, he can't do anything for you, because he is a zero, he doesn't has a career yet, and hasn't start earning cash, so he has nth but love ... so this kind of guy, some of them will have low self-esteem .... They can only show loves, but they can't do anything more, so girls, if u have such a boy ... u have to understand them, stand by them, support them, til they can do something for you .... They wan to do a lot of things, wan to give the best to their girl, but currently they aren't capable yet ... However, they love you too, take you very seriously .... the same thing, feel their love ... These guys can be very responsible ... cause they work hard for your future ...

There are also some guys, who love you and responsible ...

These love you, but they won't have sex with you, why? Because they think of you, they consider about ur future ... if any accident, u have their baby, and if by any accident, he died. Then, what are you goin to do?! So, this can't happen, so they won't spoil you by having their kids, they will ensure a stable finance before marrying you ... and make sure u have a stable family ...etc ..

This is not a very good post but anyhow just wanna share with you all, so that girls or may be guys could think of it .... so that, u could think of something that may be u never thought before ... The statement on top may not be true, cause it doesn't have any facts, that's why everyone love is special ...is like a gift that no others ...

So, I just like to share it, and no offence, cause like I say, it may not be true for all ....

Be sure you treasure your love ones ... don't ever hurt them, consider about their feelings ....okay??

Aza Aza Hwaiting, Gambateh, Work Hard!!

~Panda~