Actually perfect is imperfect, sometimes imperfect is much much more better than perfect. You see, why we can never be perfect, why god dun wan us to be perfect, no matter who u r, u will still have weaknesses ... To people that don't know u, perhaps based on the physical they may judge u as perfect, but in the end, when they know u better, they may still see ur weaknesses ... Everything have their imperfect aspect, as everything are two-sided, something like Le Chatelier's Principle .... He talks about the equilibrium shift ... therefore, i believe all organisms, all objects have this equilibrium state, that shift accordingly.
Let come back to perfection and imperfection ....
Why we must have imperfection, may be if u view it as a whole, u will see the reason why ... If perfection is able to be achieved, then there will be no variation among humans, everybody can achieved perfection, then in the end what is perfect, perfect seem to loss it meaning ... U see?! Even perfection need imperfection to define it ...
We are created with variation to make us unique, perfection is achieve when someone knows how to appreciate ur imperfection, when that someone appear then u r said to be perfected ... When u found someone that knows how to tolerate ur imperfection then u have been perfected by him/her .... so if u have found someone like tat, make sure u should him/her ur appreciation too ....Treasure them ...
There is always a standard to perfection, but there will not be a standard for imperfection, as imperfection varies from one individual to another. U will hardly find, someone with all the same imperfection, unless they are genetically linked ... Something that have a standard would be very boring isn't it?? Often when ppl meet their love ones, they would complain about their imperfection, but come to think of it, if it wasn't their imperfection, u won't know what is perfect rite?? True love, doesn't means perfect mate ... True love means how u accept and tolerate the imperfection of ur mate, and vice versa ... and Of course, sometimes, some bad habit still need to change accordingly, for examples, smoking ...
It isn't much things to say about perfection and imperfection, but main point here is sometimes u dun nid to be perfect, u juz nid to try ur best, it is better watching u trying ur best than u to be perfect ... Nobody is perfect, and without imperfection, u can never be perfect ... Is it okay to make mistakes, it is okay if u have weaknesses ... sometimes, thing that is beautiful because it has imperfection, and most of the time, imperfections is much more special than perfection ... Is okay if u cant make things perfect, is okay if u cant be perfect, cause as long as u try ur best, it is enough ... ppl that understand will appreciate it, for sure ... most importantly is u learn and u gain experiences ...
In the end, perhaps u won't agree with me about it ... but to me, i believe imperfection is something much better than perfection, imperfection is something that i may have and u may not ... but everyone may own the same perfection ... If it is in a relationship, those that know how to tolerate the imperfection of ur mate, knows true love and if both parties knows about it, and know how to appreciate ur imperfection .... then both will experience true love ... and the relationship can be lasted ...
We can also compare a crystal apple and a real apple ... a crystal apple is beautiful in appearance but i cannot be consumed, it cannot produce the sweet taste like real apples do ... it can only be view and used as a deco ... however, a real apple may not be beautiful, but it can be consumed and most of them give us a taste, a taste which is unique to every apples, to every person, different individual in different condition will feel different about it ... this is what an crystal apple cant do, even it can last forever ... but it can never do that ... even both of them have their imperfection but sometimes, u still wan to own both ... because they are unique, if apples and crystal apples are combined then it may not be so nice already isn't it?? As they have loss their uniqueness ...
No matter what u r doing, u dun nid to be perfect, u juz nid to try ur best ... trying ur best is better than being perfect ~
Aza Aza Hwaiting everybody!! u got my support all the time .... all the time~ ^^
~ Panda ~
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