
Love is actually very subjective, different people may have different definition towards it ...
Love is like your far, is not my far, how far is far, to you might be 100 kilometers or miles but to me might be 100 meters or 1 centimeters.
This post is about how I define my "love" .... what I've really long for.
To common guys, assuming by just looking at their behavior, cause this is not proven, just a hypothesis of mine. So, to a common guy, perhaps they just wanted someone to accompany, and their love or happiness is just about going out and having fun with their partner, buy stuff and gives surprises to their love ones, but to me, merely that is not enough, some more I am not capable of doing that ~ haha~ A guy like me is just lame.
So, how fine art symbolizes my so-called love, why choose fine art??
Love, to me, is a fine art. Wonder have you ever step into a fine art shops, or go to a fine art exhibition or even step in front of a fine art hanging in any shop and really look at it or perhaps may be ever search in the internet about it ... Perhaps most of the people, at least people around me, would say it is boring, don't even know what it is about, like a kindergarten kids drawing ....
Not having a fixed image is the whole point why fine art is beautiful, because this is a way to deliver someone's emotion, feelings and thought. It must not limit how you think, how to put this in words ... hmm .... fixing you with something, for instance, if someone were to show you a picture of a car, then it is a car ... it can't be something else, it must be something related to car. However, fine art is like, there is no fixed idea, you may have totally different thought and feelings looking at it. Different people will have different perspective or feelings or different images may generate by looking at the same drawing ....
How the artist make the drawing wonderful, is how they put their feelings and emotions in it, that's how they shows their creativity ....
Love is something like a fine art, it is unique to every single one of us. We can't really put in words how wonderful it is, can't really describe how we thought of it, but it just happen ... sometimes the feelings is just there, and no words can speak of it .... and it is not only about I Love You, not about beauty, intelligent or any talent of each other ... is about something, that something ... you'll know when times come.
My Fine art (Love) ...
Fine art, is not the same all the time, sometimes it is beautiful in someplace but not in another. Beautiful not in term of physical appearance. Sometimes, you will like a fine art, you love it so much in a place but not in another. Sometimes, it just the ambiance that make you think you fall for the particular piece of art, but when you spend so much to get it home, then you realize, it is not nice at all placing at home .... then you keep it, start to feel it is just occupying space and at last you gave it away or may be thrown it away ... is like love, sometimes, you thought the person is the right one, but when times passes, it turn out not like what you've expected. Perhaps you didn't realize, you're the one choosing ... perhaps you should have design a place to put it and make it nice while making you house nice too, since you have bought it ....right? Hmm ... sometimes this is life and this is love ....
A person who really knows fine art, he/she would design a place for a piece of art, and then only he/she go to look for a suitable art for that particular space he/she had designed. By doing that, you could get the right feelings whenever it is ... You're actually making the ambiance to fit that art and that's the right way ~
Likewise, love, you should reserve a place for the love you wanted, and only you look for a person like what you always wanted to place in tat space, or you design a place for him/her before you actually make him/her your partner ... So, by this mean, you actually consider his/her imperfection and love him/her rather than looking at his strong point and love him/her.
This is what I think ~ however, I couldn't put everything into words, as there is still some very abstract thought or feelings which I haven't get a way to describe them...
Somehow, even you could tolerate the imperfection, there is still other factors, like the cost of the fine art, the availability of the fine art ... should bring into consideration ....
Sometimes, to have a relationship, you'll have to spend and make sure you are capable of that before you get into one ...
Lastly wishes you good luck and all the best, in being somebody fine art and also finding a suitable fine art to fill your designated space ...
Cheers ...
~Panda~
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